My Cannon was born with schizencephaly, an extremely rare birth defect characterized by slits in the brain. We discovered this just before his 1st birthday, and ever since then he has been involved in early intervention schools/programs, and taken to several specialists.
Little Lincoln has massive fluid build-up in his ears which is causing delays in his hearing and speech. And so, yet again, our family is jumping on the bandwagon of early childhood intervention.
When you find out one of your kiddles has a delay of any kind, I think the common question to ask is "what are the normal developmental stages for children?"
I have been asked this question by countless moms.
I like to think that I would have caught the signs a bit sooner in both of my children had I known what to look for, and today I am providing an answer!
Even though this isn't a post about a particular activity, there are several appropriate toys and creative play ideas included for each age group.
And so, for those of you who are wondering if your little one may be behind in some way, or just want a better idea of what to look forward to, I give you the:
Child Developmental Play Chart
courtesy of Kids on the Move
Age Range: Birth to 1 month
Developmental Milestones:
Holds head in prone position
Anticipatory behavior at feeding
Visual fixation and visual following
Stop crying with novel stimulus, holding and rocking.
Alert response to light and sound
Babies like to:
Suck
Listen to soft sounds
Stare at movement and light
Be held and rocked
Hold things placed in their hands
Appropriate toys and Creative Play:
Mobiles and contrasting colors
Lullaby recordings
Human voices and close warm touch
Age Range: 2-3 months
Developmental Milestones:
Social smile with mother and strangers
Controls bottle with hands
Midline hand use
Prolonged visual tracking
Babies Like To:
Focus on movement, especially hand actions
Reach and bat for nearby objects
Smile
Wave their fists and watch them
Appropriate toys and Creatie Play:
Soft musical toys
Cuddle toys
Chewable rattles
Dangling toys to reach for
Age Range: 4-6 months
Developmental Milestones:
Increased social smile with mother
Becomes more quiet and subdued with strangers
Voluntary hand use
Vocalizations plus play to invite reciprocity with familiar people
Learns cause and effect
Babies Like To:
Grasp things and let go
Kick and grab feet
Laugh
Roll Over
Play Peek-a-boo
Gum objects
Appropriate toys and Creative Play:
Rubber suction toys
Play pen attachments
Crib gym- Unbreakable mirror
Use of household objects; cups spoons, pot lids and wire whisks
Squeaky toys or ball
Teething toys
Age Range: 7-9 months
Developmental Milestones:
Mild separation anxiety
Says Dada/Mama
Increased hand-eye coordination
Use of extended index finger in touching and exploring
Babies Like To:
Sit alone
Use fingers and thumbs
Notice cause and effect
Pivot on stomach
Throw, wave and bang toys
Creep and pull self up on things
Play pat-a-cake
Pull self up on furniture
Appropriate Toys and Creative Play:
Bath tub toys
More squeaky toys
Safe floor to explore
Move kitchen things
Jack-in-the-box
Peg baord
Unbreakable mirror to distinguish happy/sad face
Age Range: 10-15 months
Developmental Milestones:
Walking
Reaches out for, grasps and manipulates
Attentive to parents
Says "No", but goes ahead with activity
Play and initiation increases
Problem-solving and investigation increases
Toddlers Like To:
Poke and prod with fingers
Put things in other things
Mark on paper
Lower self from stand
Drink from a cup and try to feed self
Use 1 or 2 words
Appropriate Toys and Creative Play:
Cloth books
Motion
Container with objects and different shapes inside; ie: clothes, pins, large craons, and cheerios
Baby-proof house for full-proof exploration
Stacking blocks
Big outdoor toys: sandbox, pail and shovel, balls, things to push
Age Range: 16 months - 2 years
Developmental Milestones:
Says, "No" and responds to "No"
Use of about 20 words
Feminine identification for both sexes, interest in dress, shoes, and baby
Separates from parent - explores and returns
Solitary play with small objects
Imitation and vocal inflection
Tantrums to be expected
Toddlers Like To:
Squat down
Carry things - lug, tub and drag things
Rough house
Use sand and water
Oppose you with no
Climb on things, stairs, and furniture
Dance to music
Identify parts of themselves
Have things their way
Take things apart, sort, and turn pages
Run
Appropriate Toys and Creative Play:
Push/Pull toys
Water/Sand toys
Adult approval and floor interaction
Cloth picture books with body parts and common objects
Toy telephone
Carrying case to put things in
Big crayon and paper with superision
Simple puzzles
Toy to ride
Age Range: 2-3 years
Developmental Milestones:
Parallel play along side peers (2 1/2)
Cooperative play (3 years)
Two to three word sentences
Creative use of speech
Toilet training (2 1/2 - 3)
Accepts reasonable limits
Talks to self
Tantrums to be expected
Toddlers Like To:
Move around
Problem solve
Imitate and pretend
Construct things
Appropriate Toys and Creative Play:
Playground activities; balls, bikes and slides
Shape sorter/puzzles
Interlocking links, blocks
Finger paint and bristle color
Use musical instruction
Read simple story books with adult
Play and listen to music video
Age Range: 3-4 years
Developmental Milestones:
Cooperative play with peers
Creative use of speech
Special skill and talents displayed - Dance and Music
Some leadership and organizational skills displayed
Preschoolers Like To:
Move more skillfully
Pretend
Build
Create
Play games
Talk, report on day events and joke
Appropriate Toys and Creative Play:
Puzzles with laces, threading
Puppets, dress-up and props
Construction sets
Art supplies in abundance to enhance creativity
Simple board games
Sensorimotor play and equipment
Age Range: 5 years
Developmental Milestones:
Enjoy group activities
Comfortable being away from home for part of the day
Interestin parent's work
Learning skills develop
Can play catch well and solve simple puzzles
Detailed dreams
Appropriate Toys and Creative Play:
Books of all kinds, fairy tales and non-fiction
More outside activities (Can't get enough at this age)
Moving, dancing, and climbing
Legos/Building toys
Oh Michelle, this is some GOOD stuff! Especially since I will be having a baby soon. And since we had to poke the embryo with a microscopic needle and inject the sperm inside to fertilize it, there is a slightly higher chance for birth defects. I'm SO sorry to hear about Lincoln. Wow, you sure have had some motherhood trials to go through!!
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